Spooky Scary Kinky Sex

Since we’re on the cusp of Halloween, I thought I’d write a bit about what frightens me in the world of sex and the sexual imagination.Spoiler alert: it’s not the kinky people.DEAD BABY BUNNIESWhen I tell most vanilla folks I write about kink, they almost inevitably go straight to the scariest places they can imagine. They ask me, “What about rape? How about bestiality? And pedophilia? Why don’t...

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SizeCon: A Big Impact on a Small Community

The internet has been a boon for people with niche kinks: unlike previous generations, young kinksters no longer have to go through the profound isolation of believing themselves the only person in the world with their particular interest. A kid growing up today only has to type “balloon fetish” into Google to find enough balloon-related erotic material to provide jerk-off fodder for years. They’...

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